Life is fragile, and good, and beautiful and complex at times, and almost never what we expect it to be.
Most of all, it is fleeting.
Sometimes, it even feels foreign.
Daily routines I become so accustomed to, so familiar with -
moments that would usually be filled with meaning and beauty -
can sometimes feel achingly empty;
hollow patterns only echoing of Home.
What is "Home" though, truly? And why does it feel like we naturally measure our sense of comfort and acceptance at given moments in time by our individual experiences or perceptions of the idea?
Is 'Home' a need to feel safe and warm inside, out of reach of any harsh and volatile storms, or danger? Is it a relationship, a community? A nation?
Whichever it is, it seems to dictate our sense of direction, the relationships we form, the places we choose to live… the journey that we're all on.
Home. Where is that?
Many of us have had a sense of 'Home' modeled well to us, and the rest of our lives are spent following that pattern of creating a home for ourselves, and others.
Then there are those who have never known what it is to have one - a safe place to retreat to, to find rest, and comfort and warmth. And safety.
Yet their lives are still lived in search of such a place, or person. It's like we were born with that purpose, born in search of a place, or a person - or something - to call Home. Somewhere to belong.
On the other hand, what happens when you do have a physical place to call home, and life still feels void of any sense of it? A relationship feels foreign, distant… A loved one passes away; money runs out, a house burns down, people change their minds… A nation goes to war, injustice ruins peace; trust is abused, innocence is lost.
These things happen frequently in our lives. Homes are often disintegrating. No one is really immune to homelessness.
I have been reminded, in 'homeless' moments such as these, when even life I am well accustomed to can feel foreign, that the beauty I know - in Love, in sunsets and skies; in a hug or a whisper, or a kiss goodnight - is merely a shadow of the beauty I was formed to behold. I am deeply reminded that this place, and everything here, will never be my true home.
I remember that I am just a wanderer here, a traveller passing through.
Not stationary, but ever journeying towards You.
In these fleeting, fragile moments, You are steadfast.
Your ancient Love outlasts any Love I've ever known;
Tossed about on the shifting seas of my own Trust, in search of a safe harbor,
a place to anchor, I drift… tired and weary.
Like a faithful beacon, glowing out into the dark,
having witnessed and weathered every storm,
You remain.
The safest harbor, the strongest tower;
Trustworthy.
Trustworthy.
You are the only one that rescues, that keeps me from sinking.
Solid rock under my feet, upon You I am strong.
Words fill the air, full of promise,
but Your Words are my fortress, my future.
My foundation.
You have had the first Word from the beginning,
You who authored life.
'Before the mountains were born,
before You gave birth to the earth
and the World,
from eternity to eternity,
You are God' - Psalm 90:2 CSB
'Say this: "God, you're my refuge.
I trust in you and I'm safe!"
That's right - he rescues you from hidden traps,
shields you from deadly hazards.
His huge outstretched arms protect you -
under them you're perfectly safe;
his arms fend off all harm.
Yes, because God's your refuge,
the High God your very own home,
evil can't get close to you,
harm can't get through the door." - Psalm 91 TM
"My help and glory are in God -
granite-strength and safe-harbor-God -
So trust him absolutely, people;
lay your lives on the line for him.
God is a safe place to be." -Psalm 62:8 ™
He is Home.
My original home.
I have the privilege of experiencing a beautiful sense of home here on earth; in relationship, in community, in a physical building. But if these 'homes' I encounter are built merely on physical soil, and tangible things - on a desire to feel safe - my soul will remain homeless. For what we see before us is subject to decay and ruin, it is temporal.
"The life of mortals is like grass,
they flourish like a flower of the field;
the wind blows over it and it is gone,
and its place remembers it no more."
- Psalm 103:15 NIV -
"O LORD, what are mortals that you should notice us,
mere humans that you should care for us?"
- Psalm 144:3 NLT -
Our humanity seems so indomitable. But at the core, it is fragile.
Yet Jesus became one of us, when he emptied himself of his immortality, and entered our world as a vulnerable, mortal man, with "no beauty or majesty to attract us to him, nothing in his appearance that we should desire him". And yet "the LORD has laid on him the iniquity of us all"; he endured it all for us. He absorbed it all, all our ruin and decay, obediently and without complaint, so that death would no longer define us. So that we could build our lives upon Him, who conquered death and rose again, securing our adoption into an eternal household, an eternal kingdom.
We who are so fragile are yet so precious; the Father placed the highest value on humanity when he saw fit to become one of us, and walk amongst us.
"For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses,
but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are -
yet he did not sin. Let us then approach God's throne of grace with confidence,
so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need."
- Hebrews 4:15-16 NIV -
In Him we are safe, regardless of what we face here on earth. We were fashioned for eternity; to behold him, in all his radiant beauty.
That is the Good News, the invitation extended to us; no matter what crumbles and disintegrates momentarily - and it does - HE never fails. He offers himself as our refuge in the midst of failure, or disappointment, or fear; when everything we know has changed shape, he never changes.
What an opportunity! How amazing it is, how humbling, that he would extend such an invitation to us - wandering vagrants and sinners though we are - over and over again: of making God himself a refuge, and stronghold, and shelter.
We were born to build a home, but a home far superior - far more secure, than the homes we spend so much time building here on earth. In the end, it's the house built upon the rock that will outlast the storms.
The Home made in Him.
[The fundamental fact of existence is that this trust in God, this faith, is the firm foundation under everything that makes life worth living. It's our handle on what we can't see.] [ Hebrews 11, The Message]